Monday, January 02, 2012

Meditation Tools


Meditation
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The student of meditation may find themselves at times overwhelmed with the various “tools” that are out there designed to guide or assist the student in meditation. I know when I was a beginning student I spent a great deal of time exploring what I thought I needed to “sit” and tried many things to help with my concentration. Now after years of trying out the various meditation tools I have come to a point where I simply need a comfortable place to sit, a recording of a singing bowl and a “zen” alarm to signal the end of my session. However, since that was not always the case I have decided to put together a post detailing some of the common tools out there for meditation and how they are used.

Zafu Meditation Cushion: Since many traditional forms of meditation are done sitting one of the most basic tools a student will need is something to sit on. Commonly you will find people using a Zafu (a little round pillow on which to sit) but there are so many different types of instruments out there designed to make you sit tall yet comfortably for your meditation session. From chairs to stools you will find it all and there is no right or wrong tool. It all depends on what you want to sit on. In truth, while your comfort in sitting is the most important step to begin your practice most likely you could find something around your home that will work. If you have a yoga mat you could sit it on the floor with your back against the wall and find enough comfort for your session. While you should start with this tool, do not worry too much about whether or not you have the “right” sitting setup. It is right if you are comfortable yet erect (in other words no slouching meditators here).

Mala Beads: Mala beads very simply are prayer beads. They are used in many different types of religions (even Catholics use prayer beads, commonly called a rosary). The number of beads and the style of beads will vary (in yoga there are 108 beads) but all are designed to help you concentrate on restating a mantra (for example: gaté, gaté, paragaté, parasamgaté, bodhi svaha). The idea is that you touch each bead on the strand, say your mantra then move on the next bead and repeat. Once you have come full circle on the strand you have completed your meditation.

Zen Gardens: A Zen garden is a small sand garden often with a few rocks and a rake. In order to help focus your attention on only one task you are to rake the garden. I have a small Zen garden and I at times find it useful when I have difficulty entering into my meditation. It is calming and aesthetically pleasing in any room. You can find relatively simple and inexpensive Zen gardens almost anywhere. You can also very easily make your own.

Singing Bowls: If you are a student of meditation or yoga you will find yourself hard-pressed not to have run into a singing bowl sometime in your practice. They are so commonly used in both meditation and yoga classes throughout most of the U.S. Singing bowls are usually of two forms metal or crystal. They come in various sizes that will be tuned for different areas of the body or mind. The sound and the vibration from the bowl are wonderful tools for helping you to enter further into yourself, but you do not necessarily need to have a bowl present in your meditation to enjoy the benefits of their music. There are several good recordings out there of bowls that you can put on your mp3 player and listen to on a personal device or on a stereo in your meditation room. Out of all the tools I have tried and used my recording of singing bowls is the one that I still use daily.

Incense and Aromatherapy: Incense or other forms of aromatherapy are commonly used to create a mood in your meditation room. It is also used cleanse an area. It is used in many cultures and religions. I am not aware of smells being used specifically for concentration purposes but I certainly do not see why one could not use a smell as a concentration tool. You could introduce a smell into your meditation room and begin to find adjectives to describe the experience of the smell until no other thoughts but the smell exist in your mind. If you are a meditation guide I would avoid using smells with students (unless you are familiar with all your students) because there are many who have sensitivity to smells. Many types of incense for example give me a headache and make it difficult for me to concentrate.

Candles: Whether real or LED candles can be an inexpensive and useful concentration tool. They not only help to set a mood in your meditation room but the flame can also be a tool used to meditate on. Candle gazing is common for many beginning meditators. Focusing all your attention on the flickering flame will help you to draw inward sooner and keep your concentration in one place.

Alarms and Timers: Besides your meditation pillow, the alarm or timer you use to end your session is one of the most important tools you will want to always have with you in your meditation sessions. I would highly recommend not using a regular alarm clock. The annoying beeping can be somewhat jarring when coming out of a long meditation. There are many products out there that offer more soothing sounds to end your sessions. Personally I use my cell phone. I have used my favorite Om chant recording and created a ring tone out of it and it is my alarm. Put your cell phone on airplane mode so no incoming calls can interrupt your session and set it for the desired time. The best part about using a cell phone as your meditation alarm is that you will more than likely always have it with you and you can easily change the tone.

The above are just a few things that you may run into when sitting with others in meditation studios or monasteries. All of them are useful, but in the end it is only you that can decide which tools you choose to use. Remember your practice is the most important thing not necessarily what tools you use to meditate.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Busted in Bollywood by Nicola Marsh

Busted in Bollywood
My rating: 3 of 5 stars


Busted in Bollywood by Nicola Marsh is a fun light read about Shari Jones. Shari Jones finds herself in a real mess, homeless, broken hearted and unemployed. Unsure that her life will turn around anytime soon her best friend Rita proposes an outrageous scheme that involves Shari posing as Rita in an attempt to get rid of her fiancé whom Rita’s traditional Indian parents have chosen for her. Not seeing anything more promising on the horizon Shari agrees to the scheme and travels to India only to find that nothing goes according to plan and once again she has placed herself in a position where she could very well have her heart broken. Shari has a decision to make, should she risk it all and take the pieces of her new life and begin to put them together or should she play it safe, stay in New York and hope that someday opportunity and love will come her way again.

This book is a quick read and it is fun. There is nothing really substantial about this book. The characters are one dimensional and the relationships are superficial but the book is a page turner, full of laughs, a little bit of shock and ultimately what everyone wants in a good tale of love lost and found again, a happy ending.

What this book really has going for it, besides being fun to read, is a great exploration of Indian food. There is a lot of food in this book and some very rich descriptions of the spicy and the sweet. I enjoy it when books can step outside their primary purpose and give us a little cultural education. How accurate the food accounts are I could not tell you not being all that familiar with Indian food myself, but each one is a delicious little morsel you will savor.

There are also some nice blurbs about the culture in India and Bollywood movies that this reader found interesting. Since a majority of the story takes place in India, we, along with Shari discover its secrets and delights. By the end of this book you will find yourself ordering Indian food and curling up in front of a Bollywood film.

Those who want something fun to read over their holiday vacations will find this a great read. It can be read in just a couple of days and will leave you with happy, satisfied feeling.

Publication Date: December 6, 2011

Note: I was given this book for review. In no way does that fact effect what was written in this review.


Holiday Kisses: A Holiday Romance Collection

Holiday Kisses: A Holiday Romance CollectionHoliday Kisses: A Holiday Romance Collection by Shannon Stacey

My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Holiday Kisses: A Holiday Romance Collection by Shannon Stacey, Jaci Burton , HelenKay Dimon, Alison Kent and Angela James (Editor) is a collection of short romance tales all with the theme of Christmas. The first story is “This Time Next Year” is one of a woman who finds herself stranded on the side of the road on the way to visit her grandmother for Christmas. Just at her moment of need a cowboy comes riding to the rescue, pulls her to safety and together they find out just what it means to have someone they love at Christmas.

The second story, “A Rare Gift” is about a man who has no interest in women after a disastrous marriage that is why it takes him by surprise when his ex-wife’s younger sister begins to grow on him during a work project. Now with the holidays approaching he finds himself asking whether or not he can put his trust in love a second time.

The third story, “It’s Not Christmas Without You,” is about a woman who breaks up with her boyfriend in order to accept her dream job in the city. Still in love with her boyfriend she cannot bring herself to go home for Christmas. When her boyfriend, who is also still in love, discovers this he is determined to bring Christmas to her in the city in hopes that after Christmas she will come home with him and resume their love story.

The last story in this romance short story collection is, “Mistletoe and Margaritas.” Two years after losing her husband a woman still finds herself not quite ready to move on. However, she still believes in love and is not surprised when her needs start to manifest themselves in her dreams. What surprises her however are the feelings that she has begun to develop about her best friend, Justin. As it turns out he has always had affection for her and when they find themselves at a holiday party together they are no longer able to conceal their true feelings for one another.

I have to admit there are few times when I rate a romance novel higher than 3 stars. This collection started off with great promise the first short story actually engaged me in it’s story line before moving on to the “romance” part of the novel (read here the lusty love scenes). For short stories they actually did take their time letting their characters fall in love and all of them stuck true to the holiday theme. What made this book dip below the typical 3 stars I will give a romance novel is the graphicness of the love scenes. Call me a prude but I have read many Sandra Brown novels with some pretty intense love scenes that did not make me say, “Well now THAT is just going too far,” this collection made me say that more than once. I am sure there are many readers out there that enjoy those type of love scene but for this reader it bordered on erotic fiction and outside the taste of this reader.

People who enjoy romance novels however will more than likely enjoy this collection, as mentioned earlier the contributors do take their time to develop a story between their characters and many of them are enjoyable page turners, the only real problem with this collection is that according to the taste of this reader some of the love scenes were just a little too much.

Publication Date: December 5, 2011



Note: I was given this book for review. In no way does that fact effect what was written in this review.

Monday, December 05, 2011

Yoga as Music on Elephant Journal

A while ago I wrote about the movements we do in yoga as a form of music that we perform with our bodies. Well I submitted that article to the very popular and totally awesome online yoga and meditation magazine Elephant Journal and it was published! You can read a revised version of my initial post here...

www.elephantjournal.com/2011/12/strum-your-prana-with-the-chord-of-yoga--amanda-perez/

If you are not a member of Elephant Journal yet I encourage you to join. It is a fantastic publication with a wide variety of articles to read, well worth the  money and it's eco-friendly. :)

Happy Reading.
Amanda

Thursday, December 01, 2011

Sun Salutations A, B and C

The Sun Salutations or Surya Namaskar are very common in many yoga classes however there are so many variations that it can be confusing which you are doing. There are some great resources online that I would like to share with you about all three Sun Salutations A, B,C. In this post you will see videos from Yoga journal for Sun Salutation A, B and a modified version. A and B are pretty classic and you will see those a lot in classes and online. The modified version is new to me but it looks like a great version of A and C (in C you use the 8 point pose to lower yourself into Cobra instead of Chatarunga). I could not find a video that portrayed C but here is a link to a PDF that lists all three along with common names, Sanskrit and breath…

Sun Salutation A, B, C

Hope you find these helpful and that you add the Sun Salutations into your daily practice.
~Namaste

Sun Salutation A


Sun Salutation B


Modified Sun Salutation

Monday, November 28, 2011

Classics Challenges 2012


As a student of literature it is not uncommon for me to have a number of “classic” novels in my reading queue. I have to admit though 2011 has been a little sparce in the classics department. That is why when I stumbled onto two classic reading challenges from fellow book bloggers I signed up without hesitation. 2012 will be a year to reconnect with some old favorites and read some classics that I just never got around to reading. Below are the challenges that I entered along with my projected book lists for each challenge. Unlike the last time I joined in on a classic reading challenge all the books below will be read on my Nook and my Kindle. If you are participating in either challenge and want to share your lists please feel free to do so… I love lists. J



Dates: January 1-December 31 2012

Description: This challenge is hosted by Katherine of November’s Autumn. The goal is to read 7 classic novels in 2012 and participate in the 4th of the month writing prompt at November’s Autumn.

Book List:  (some of these books are also on my Back to the Classics Challenge 2012 list)
1. Villette by Charlotte Bronte
2. Women In Love by D. H. Lawrence
3. Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy
4. Grimm's Tales for Young and Old
5. Tom Jones: The History of a Foundling by Henry Fielding
6. Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë
7. Emma by Jane Austen



Dates: January 1- December 31, 2012

Description: Sarah of Sarah Reads too Much set up the reading challenge in which we are to read one classic for each of the following categories:
  • Any 19th Century Classic (Category 1)
  • Any 20th Century Classic (Category 2)
  • ReRead a Classic of your choice (Category 3)
  • A Classic Play (Category 4)
  • Classic Mystery/Horror or Crime Fiction (Category 5)
  • Classic Romance (Category 6)
  • Read a Classic that has been translated from its original language into your native language (Category 7)
  • Classic Award Winner (Category 8)
  • Rea­­­­d a classic set in a country that you will not visit in your lifetime (Category 9)


Book List:
Category 1: Little Women by Louisa May Alcott published in two volumes 1868 and 1869

Category 2: Women In Love by D. H. Lawrence - initially banned, published in 1920

Category 3: Tom Jones: The History of a Foundling by Henry Fielding the 18th Century English novel that was the subject of my Masters in Literature thesis

Category 4: Hamlet by William Shakespeare

Category 5: The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde enchanted portraits and overindulgence who could ask for anything more.

Category 6: Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë so much in love that it carries over into the grave.

Category 7: The Inferno by Dante Alighieri first written in Italian and then eventually translated into English

Category 8: The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction in 1940.

Category 9: Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy is set in nineteenth century Russia, a place that I cannot foresee myself visiting in my lifetime.

Speaking of lists... here is a great list of 100 classic books  from Wikipedia that might interest some of you. 



Tuesday, November 15, 2011

The Winter Palace: A Novel of Catherine the Great by Eva Stachniak

The Winter Palace: A Novel of Catherine the GreatThe Winter Palace: A Novel of Catherine the Great by Eva Stachniak

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


I have to admit that there is nothing like the drama of palace life that intrigues me. The gluttony, the power hungry willing to do anything… when done right it can create a real pager turner. That is why this reader very rarely turns down the opportunity to read a historical fiction novel especially one set in the 18th Century. The only downside to fondness for such literature is that there are many such novels out there and not all are worth the read. The Winter Palace: A Novel of Catherine the Great by Eva Stachniak is worth the read.

Varvara the daughter of a bookbinder from Poland is an innocent girl who believed that the word of the Empress was truth that could always be depended on. After the loss of both her parents Varvara, was taken to the palace where she believed the Empress would care for her because after all the Empress did give her word to her father. She was disappointed to find that she was just another ward who was invisible to everyone because she was considered a no one. It was not until she learned to see what others would not see and listen to the words meant to be kept secret that she rose through the ranks.

Completely satisfied with being a tongue for the Empress Varvara’s (Barbara’s) only wish was to be at the Empress’s side just as she had promised her father before his death. It was not until Sophie a young countess brought to marry Peter III did Varvara ever feel the need to protect someone other than herself and began to question the cruelty of palace life. Together Sophie, later to become Catherine the Great, and Varvara took a small girl and made her Empress of all Russia.

The story of how Catherine the Great rose to power is not that unusual in the historical fiction world. What makes The Winter Palace: A Novel of Catherine the Great stand out however is the choice of the protagonist. Varavara is the only character we hear from in the book. It is through her eyes that we watch the fall of old power and the rise of new power. It is through her that we discover just how far people are willing to go for power.

This book is a great read for those who are interested in 18th century historical fiction and Catherine the Great. Heck if you just want a good read and are not really interested in either you will enjoy this book. As I mentioned earlier in this review it is a page turner. The only thing that I was disappointed with was the ending. I do not want to spoil the novel for anyone so I will not go into great detail about the ending but let me just say that I felt there were loose ends that needed to be tied up at the end and the ending felt somewhat abrupt and not as satisfying as I hoped it would be. All that said, it is a fantastic book worthy of at least one read.

As a side note I would just like to express my extreme pleasure at how prominent books were in this novel. Any bibliophile would adore this novel simply for the descriptions of the books that surrounded Varvara and the power that storytelling alone had on everyone in the novel.

Publication of this novel is scheduled for January 2012.

Note: I was given this book for review. In no way does that fact effect what was written in this review.


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Tuesday, November 08, 2011

Zen Meditations


After posting a little post here on Weekly Zen about how to meditate I started to receive emails requesting more information. In particular people wanted to know more about Zazen. After gathering my thoughts about what I know about Zen meditations and doing a little additional research here is a brief outline about the different types of meditations that Zen practitioner’s use.

First let’s start by defining in simple terms what exactly Zen is. Zen is simply meditation or a meditative state. Often people may also think of it as some sort of Nirvana. You may also hear many people refer to Zen as a life full of simplicity. Any of these ideas can portray what Zen means because all will bring you wisdom or enlightenment if you spend time with them.

As far as the history of Zen goes, it is complicated and somewhat incomplete. What is known (or is widely accepted) is that it was founded by the South Indian Tamil Buddhist sage Bodhidharma. It was first documented in 7th century China and from there was said to have spread to Vietnam, Korea and then Japan.  The word Zen itself is the Japanese version of the Chinese word Chan which was derived from the Sanskrit word Dhyana. All mean the same thing and can, if you choose so, be used interchangeably.
Now that we have a little history under our belts in regards to Zen let us turn our attention to how you can enter into Zen. There are many paths to wisdom but here are the most common techniques used in Zen Buddhism.

1) Zazen: Zazen is what is often depicted when one thinks of meditation. It is sitting . When you sit you are working on regulating your mind. A technique to regulate your mind can be as simple as counting your breath. How you sit is somewhat important but can be modified according to your body. As was mentioned in my previous post on meditation there are many great tutorials out there with pictures that show you how to sit (at the end of this post I will list several great resources for you). Often people will sit in full Lotus or half Lotus, but any type of sitting in which your back is straight and your airway is not restricted is fine. The most important thing to remember is that the aim of Zazen is to be aware of the stream of thoughts that flow through your mind and allow them to continue their flow. Except them as they are and if you wish let them stay present in your mind. I do this but I like to clean up my thought stream every once and awhile and allow some to be filed away, so they are always there but not always in the forefront.

2) Sesshin: Sesshin is group Zazen and it is often done in monasteries by monks for hours every day.

3)Koan: Koan practice is an inquiry that can take place during Zazen, walking mediation or in your daily activities. Koans are stories that are related to Zen or Buddhist history. They usually take the form of anecdotes that involve a Zen teacher and practical demonstration of their wisdom. They are used to test you and your Zen practice and are meant to encourage the truth to reveal itself. You should let go of conceptual thinking and logical constructions of the world around us so your creativity and spontaneity can bloom in your mind.  Here is an example of a Koan:

A Cup of Tea
Nan-in received a university professor who came to inquire about Zen.
Nan-in served tea. He poured his visitor's cup full and then kept on pouring.
The professor watched the overflow until he could restrain himself no longer. "It is overfull. No more will go in!"
"Like this cup", Nan-in said, "you are full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I show you Zen unless you first empty your cup?"


4)Mantras: if you get books or look at Zen meditation websites not all of them will list mantras as something that Zen Buddhist’s use but they are useful. When you sit in Zazen instead of counting your breath or using visualizations you may repeat any mantra to yourself. The number of times depends on you and your beliefs. You may have seen mala beads and have heard that you should repeat a mantra 108 times. You can if you want to but the main idea behind it all is that you repeat the mantra enough until it is all that is left in your thoughts.  Here are some of the general mantras that I have found in my readings that you may consider using…

Clear mind, clear mind, clear mind... Don’t Know
The above can be used when you have too much on your mind and would just like to quite some of the noise.

gaté, gaté, paragaté, parasamgaté, bodhi svaha
translation: “gone, gone, gone beyond; opposites disappear, absolute appears”

Namu–de–bang–kwang–bul–hwa–um–gyung
Helps to make our minds strong and complete.

Om
The universal mantra of truth. This is used in many different traditions. It is even used in yoga. It is said to be able to take everything away.

Om–chi–lim

Protects your body from bad energy. When you are feeling sick or need energy this is a good mantra to use.


Om–nam
The mantra of purification. Use this when the place you are in seems to have bad energy attached to it.



Additional Readings:
Here is a list of things you can read to broaden your understanding of the topics discussed above. As always if there is anything you would like to add or you have any questions about this discussion please email me at amanda@amandasweeklyzen.com or comment on this post.

Zen Readings:
http://www.zenguide.com/ : a great website for everything Zen

Zazen Readings:
http://www.meditationquotes.com/index.htm : a great website for meditation quotes and some beginner tips (its focus is general meditation)

http://www.mro.org/zmm/teachings/meditation.php : has a great tutorial on how to sit

http://www.zenguide.com/zenmedia/books/chapters.cfm?t=zazen_meditation_guide : a Zazen guide that can be downloaded into a PDF

Koan Readings:
http://www.nozen.com/index.htm : a great little place that offers different Koans for study. It also has a great mobile site.

Mantra Readings:
http://zenmirror.blogspot.com/2009/03/mantra-practice.html : a comprehensive list of Zen Mantras





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